How to create a Friendship in 60 Seconds
by mrkapilverma (01/04/2008 - 18:07)
Meeting people sometimes can be difficult, but think about it, you may be missing a chance to talk to someone who could become your best friend

STEPS:
- Be confident. If the other person doesn't start the conversation, then you should try to start it. Look around and see what is the most interesting thing to talk about. Talking about fashion or music could help. You could start the conversation like this: "Have you seen Hilary Duff's (or your favourite singer's) new video..." or "That is a really nice bracelet, where did you get it..." or something else in that style.
- Be in. Even if friendship is not based on clothing style, an interesting and fashionable combination could be a fun thing to talk about. Maybe you will find a friend with a similar clothing style.
- Big smile. The big smile is a sign that you are fun and communicative person, and that makes it easy for the others, and they will come to you faster.
- Think positively. The smile is important, but you will have to smile on the inside too. Think about positive things, and your mood will make everyone feel good.
- Keep in touch. You've just met someone and now you think that you can become good friends, so what are you waiting for, ask for her/his phone number or her/his e-mail address.
- Be open. Never judge anyone before you meet her/him, and be open for hanging out. You will be surprised by the number of new friendships coming your way.
- Have fun. When you feel nervous, try to laugh more. That will help you to forget about the problem. You can say a joke - even a bad joke can make a smile on your face.
- Don't be scared to randomly talk to someone, especially if you know absolutely no one at the place you are. Chances are, they want a new friend too, if they don't know anyone else either.
TIPS:
- When you see the person that you wanna be friends with say "Hi".
- Give compliments.
- Find out what you have in common with the other person.
- Make sure that you want to be their friend. You don't want to sometime later find them annoying and hurt them.
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- This doesn't take 60 seconds it takes more, but with patience you will get a long lasting friendship.
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- Watch what you say and be cheery.
Warnings:
- Don't lie, because that can complicate the situation.
- Don't be afraid to tease them a bit, as long as it is good natured.
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